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 | | Subject: When news articles are inserted into advice columns Sun Oct 04, 2020 6:05 pm | |
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Dear Anna,
Is anal sex appropriate on the first date or should I just hold off for a few more dates, or just forget the hole thing? —Really Confused
Dear RC,
I’m really amused by your “hole” typo, especially in regard to anal sex. Should you, indeed, forget the hole thing? Let’s get to the bottom of this (sorry).
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First, what do you mean by “appropriate”? I’m guessing you’re wondering if such an ask is “suitable or proper” as defined by social or cultural norms. And the answer is: It depends.
Is the date in question a gay man, for instance? Is it more socially acceptable for gay men to have sex on first dates? Yes. That doesn’t mean they all want to, but the odds are more in your favor that you would get a yes than if you went on a date with, say, a straight ascetic monk.
If the date in question is a woman who likes men and you are a man and you have been flirting heavily prior to this date and she has enthusiastically mentioned how hot it would be to get canned in the can, then I would also say the odds are in your favor.
If, however, you have zero input as to the sexual preferences and proclivities of your lady date and you spring this question on her over a Bloomin’ Onion at Outback Steakhouse without context or foreplay or any regard for her sexual desires, then, no, you’re probably not going to receive a favorable response.
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