I know a few women who could leave here and don't. I envy and don't understand them. They seem to be under the impression- no, I take that back- they are under the impression that this place can be changed. That people like me who leave here (or plan to) are the real problem and if we all just stayed and fought it would be ok. I honestly can't tell you how much name calling occurs when I discuss me leaving here and why. I have actually been called a coward among other things. As supportive and positive as people like NoCo and my friend Sarah are about me leaving a lot of the people here I know are exactly the opposite. They don't seem to understand we are simply outnumbered. That's all there is to it, there just isn't enough of us to keep each other safe and accomplish our goals.